Monday, June 2, 2008

convenient-----marriage or divorce?

why do two people come together to live a life? to be happy? or they are scared of loneliness??? well...i dont know.

But is strange as I see some people completely not made for each other. And its so visible but it takes them so much time to realise that.

But is it fair that one realises it earlier... figures is/her life...puts everything in place. gets over the relation. gets ready to move on and almost figures it all. where to go, what to do etc etc etc...and then by the way informs the spouse before doing so.

Does not give a reason also?? so the person has to keep guessing what went wrong, what she/he did wrong? could it be fixed? but are there any answers?? and not after 6 months of marriage .. but after years of marriage.

why do people do that?? does it give them great sadistic pleasure or does it scare them to tell their partner. the one whom they loved and slept on the same bed with?? or is that convenience too???

1 comment:

Lost & found said...

I guess very few people find a perfect partner...the rest want to.

When they cant,they compromise.With passage of time they realise they have no one to go back home to or someone to listen to all that they have to say without seeking an opportunity in it.

They beat loneliness by marrying a soul similarly lost.

Will they find happiness...dont know. But happiness is different for everyone. Some seek the happiness of companionship, for some being married is happiness initself, some find happiness in mothering and so on.

But what makes people decide to part ways after puting their own individual lives in order?

Guess insecurity. Coz the other dependant helpless soul shouldnt strike out in desperation and break the new sphere of happiness.