"a man who will not lie to a woman has very little consideration for her feelings"
olin miller
well a friend of mine has taken this quote quite seriously....
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Monday, June 2, 2008
convenient-----marriage or divorce?
why do two people come together to live a life? to be happy? or they are scared of loneliness??? well...i dont know.
But is strange as I see some people completely not made for each other. And its so visible but it takes them so much time to realise that.
But is it fair that one realises it earlier... figures is/her life...puts everything in place. gets over the relation. gets ready to move on and almost figures it all. where to go, what to do etc etc etc...and then by the way informs the spouse before doing so.
Does not give a reason also?? so the person has to keep guessing what went wrong, what she/he did wrong? could it be fixed? but are there any answers?? and not after 6 months of marriage .. but after years of marriage.
why do people do that?? does it give them great sadistic pleasure or does it scare them to tell their partner. the one whom they loved and slept on the same bed with?? or is that convenience too???
But is strange as I see some people completely not made for each other. And its so visible but it takes them so much time to realise that.
But is it fair that one realises it earlier... figures is/her life...puts everything in place. gets over the relation. gets ready to move on and almost figures it all. where to go, what to do etc etc etc...and then by the way informs the spouse before doing so.
Does not give a reason also?? so the person has to keep guessing what went wrong, what she/he did wrong? could it be fixed? but are there any answers?? and not after 6 months of marriage .. but after years of marriage.
why do people do that?? does it give them great sadistic pleasure or does it scare them to tell their partner. the one whom they loved and slept on the same bed with?? or is that convenience too???
Happy moving
A few months back I had written about moving on. By moving on I mean jobs.
When I moved to my current job, I had a lot of hope. Hope that things would become better. I guess thats because I am quite an optimistic person. Well thank god, because I have discovered a place that I like.
I always wondered what it would feel like shooting with all these big stars---film stars, sports people etc. And I thought it would be so great being face to face with these people. And now within six months I don't think I have that longing to shoot with some celebrity anymore. I just feel its like a job for me like its a job for them. They are all normal people like us. They get tired, they work hard.
Once upon a time the dream was to meet these people and may be shake hands or mumble a quick 'autograph please'. But who thought that you will tell shahrukh or amitabh to turn right, look into camera ( not so much) and smile ( little more) hands on hips and he would happily do it?????
Well may be we should think. It might just happen.....who knows.
When I moved to my current job, I had a lot of hope. Hope that things would become better. I guess thats because I am quite an optimistic person. Well thank god, because I have discovered a place that I like.
I always wondered what it would feel like shooting with all these big stars---film stars, sports people etc. And I thought it would be so great being face to face with these people. And now within six months I don't think I have that longing to shoot with some celebrity anymore. I just feel its like a job for me like its a job for them. They are all normal people like us. They get tired, they work hard.
Once upon a time the dream was to meet these people and may be shake hands or mumble a quick 'autograph please'. But who thought that you will tell shahrukh or amitabh to turn right, look into camera ( not so much) and smile ( little more) hands on hips and he would happily do it?????
Well may be we should think. It might just happen.....who knows.
quiet no-where
25th jan '08
ever heard of place which nowhere. thats what i shall call shaheen bagh... a quiet little place hidden between some clouds and trees and one or two mountains. and what do u do no-where?? ......obviously nothing.
ever heard of place which nowhere. thats what i shall call shaheen bagh... a quiet little place hidden between some clouds and trees and one or two mountains. and what do u do no-where?? ......obviously nothing.
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